UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIPS AND HEALING LOVE
- 2 days workshop with family constellaions
Dates: 22nd and 23rd July 2023
Times: 9:30 to 16:30 both days
Price: 550CHF
Price for two: 1’000CHF (bring a friend or your partner)
Language: English
Location: Zurich. Precise location To be announced
Whether we’re single or in a relationship, this workshop is designed to get to the heart of what prevents us from having the closeness we all desire. We’ll explore the forces that influence relationship choices – the relationship we have with ourselves and what we learnt from our childhood about love. We’ll examine in depth the various dynamics that affect intimacy, and demonstrate the importance of the orders of love.
You will learn:
► How to love and appreciate yourself better
► Where your boundaries are and how to communicate them with others
► What influences relationship choices on a subconscious level
► Ways relationships can be significantly damaged or strengthened
► How to preserve aliveness and establish your full weight with a partner;
Participants will have the opportunity to experience Family Constellations, a three-dimensional learning process designed to reveal the hidden dynamics and unconscious family loyalties that limit our ability to have successful relationships.
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Love between partners requires the renunciation of our first and most intimate love, our love as a child for our parents. Only when a boy's attachment either loving or resentful -to his mother is resolved can he give himself fully to his partner and enter manhood. A girl's attachment to her father must also be resolved before she can give herself to her partner and be a woman.
Successful togetherness demands the sacrifice and transformation of our earliest child bond to our parents, the boy to his mother and the girl to her father.” - Extract from the book “Love's hidden Symmetry, what makes love work in relationships” , Bert Hellinger, Gunthard Weber & Hunter Beaumont
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What can you expect from the workshop?
► The workshop is spread over two days and includes meditations, guided group exercises, personal constellations, sharing and journaling, theory and practice.
► The main focus of the workshop will lie in experiencing family constellations. A constellation is a recreated model of the family and it allows us to find out what events or people from the past, even a few generations back, affect our lives, and how.
► Besides the constellation work. we will have some practices and learn some tools based on body-centered and relationships therapy for better connection, understanding and loving ourselves and others. We will also address childhood traumas so that a better balance is created within ourselves and with a partner, and a better sense of self-worth can be established. There will be a healing for family relationships so that we can identify and detach from family traumas. Once we are free of entanglements from the past, new ways of giving and receiving love can begin to take root.
1️⃣ On
day one we will focus on your family of origin (Mother, Father, Entanglements in the previous generations).
2️⃣ Day two will be dedicated to your present family, ex-partners and general obstacles to love.
⫸ More about family constellations:
The method of Family Constellation is an effective way to heal difficulties or traumas in families as well as in present relationships. Most often unexpected, solution-oriented interventions bring relaxation and understanding in a problematic situation and allow love to flow again between the members of the family system and between couples.
It is also an effective way to alter the energetic field of one’s life and family, creating concrete change for the better.
Family system constellations allow us to deal with:
⫸Unconscious mechanisms that motivate our existence
⫸blockages and beliefs that we have since birth
⫸"entanglements" from loyalties we might carry to our ancestors.
Many different kinds of other issues can be explored in this way, not only familial:
⫸Challenges in communication, in life, work, or relationships
⫸Diseases and emotional or mental disorders
⫸Professional and organizational (business) issues
⫸Parental difficulties
⫸Internal conflicts of the personality
Constellation work is useful for:
⫸Clarifying and improving relationships in intimate, family and work relationships
⫸Finding the “right” place in life, gaining strength and ability to act; reconnecting with resources
⫸Bringing awareness to a current health situation helping in cases of divorce, separation, departure through death, etc.
⫸in case of self-doubt or inability to make a decision on a personal or professional level;
⫸For improving relationships with children and supporting the whole family
The solutions brought about through this therapy work bring relaxation and understanding. When respecting certain order and unspoken laws directing the family soul, then love can flow freely.
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A German therapist, Bert Hellinger, has developed systemic Family Therapy. In this therapeutic approach, the individual is considered not as a separate unit, but as part of a greater whole, a family system, an energy field.
Like in any other system, there are laws, which guide the individual’s behaviour and to a large extent are unspoken and the individuals are even unaware of them. Hellinger calls these laws ‘
Orders of Love’.
The method of bringing the hidden family dynamics to light supports an inner movement towards healing and brings acceptance, forgiveness, reconciliation. When the right order is followed, all family members feel a great relief and love begins to flow again freely. Then instead of being a burden, one’s family can be experienced as a source of great strength.
The movement ‘beyond family’ and ‘from blind love to conscious love’ is part of an inner growth process that brings the individual in deep synchronicity with life itself.
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⫸About Rozalina Angelova:
Rozalina Angelova gained her master’s degree in clinical psychology at the free university in Berlin.
Working with children, couples and individuals she has been using body-centred psychological therapy, coaching, yoga, meditation and reiki to support and guide her clients. She has been organising workshops and seminars mainly in Switzerland, where she has been living for the past 12 years. Rozalina works with her clients in English and German.
⫸About Elitsa Velikova
Elitsa has a master’s degree in expressive arts therapy and psychology Switzerland and the UK. She is a university teacher at the New Bulgarian University, Sofia, Bulgaria, and the director of the Institute for therapy and expressive arts in Sofia, Bulgaria. She has been trained in various therapeutic methods, such as Family Constellations, Childhood Trauma work, Breath and body therapy, Counselling skills. Elitsa has conducted many workshops in various countries around the world – in Europe, USA, China, Turkey, and others. She has worked with adults, children, couples and families for the last 18 years individually and in groups. She facilitates educational and professional courses for family constellation and expressive arts therapy and uses these methods
in many therapeutic settings.
⫸PRICES:
- Price: 550 CHF for both days
- Price for one day is 285 CHF
- Price for two for both days: 1’000CHF (bring a friend or your partner)
Dates: 22nd and 23rd July 2023
Times: 9:30 to 16:30 both days
Language: English
Location: Zurich. Precise location To be announced
⫸ For questions and registrations:
Rozalina Angelova
tel. +41 78 222 93 39
email:
rozalina.angelova@gmail.com
http://rozalinaangelova.com/services/workshops-and-seminars/
